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  • Oh my God, 86 Wives!

    Nigerian Mohammed Bello Abubakar, 84, has advised other men not to follow his example and marry 86 women. The former teacher and Muslim preacher, who lives in Niger State with his wives and at least 170 children, says he is able to cope only with the help of God.

     

    "A man with 10 wives would collapse and die, but my own power is given by Allah. That is why I have been able to control 86 of them," he told the BBC.

    He says his wives have sought him out because of his reputation as a healer.

    "I don't go looking for them, they come to me. I will consider the fact that God has asked me to do it and I will just marry them."  But such claims have alienated the Islamic authorities in Nigeria, who have branded his family a cult.

     

    Most Muslim scholars agree that a man is allowed to have four wives, as long as he can treat them equally. But Mr Bello Abubakar says there is no punishment stated in the Koran for having more than four wives. "To my understanding the Koran does not place a limit and it is up to what your own power, your own endowment and ability allows," he says. "God did not say what the punishment should be for a man who has more than four wives, but he was specific about the punishment for fornication and adultery."

     

    As Mr Bello Abubakar emerged from his compound to speak to the BBC, his wives and children broke out into a praise song.

     

    Most of his wives are less than a quarter of his age - and many are younger than some of his own children. The wives the BBC spoke to say they met Mr Bello Abubakar when they went to him to seek help for various illnesses, which they say he cured. "As soon as I met him the headache was gone," says Sharifat Bello Abubakar, who was 25 at the time and Mr Bello Abubakar 74.

    "God told me it was time to be his wife. Praise be to God I am his wife now."

    Ganiat Mohammed Bello has been married to the man everyone calls "Baba" for 20 years. When she was in secondary school her mother took her for a consultation with Mr Bello Abubakar and he proposed afterwards.

     

    "I said I couldn't marry an older man, but he said it was directly an order from God," she says. She married another man but they divorced and she returned to Mr Bello Abubakar. "I am now the happiest woman on earth. When you marry a man with 86 wives you know he knows how to look after them," she said.

     

    Mr Bello Abubakar and his wives do not work and he has no visible means of supporting such a large family. He refuses to say how he makes enough money to pay for the huge cost of feeding and clothing so many people.

    Every mealtime they cook three 12kg bags of rice which all adds up to $915 (£457) every day. "It's all from God," he says.

     

    Other residents of Bida, the village where he lives in the northern Nigerian state, say they do not know how he supports the family. According to one of his wives, Mr Bello Abubakar sometimes asks his children to go and beg for 200 naira ($1.69, £0.87), which if they all did so would bring in about $290 (£149).

    Most of his wives live in a squalid, unfinished house in Bida; others live in his house in Lagos, Nigeria's commercial capital. He refuses to allow any of his family or other devotees to take medicine and says he does not believe that malaria exists.

     

    As you sit here if you have any illness I can see it and just remove it," he says.

    But not everyone can be cured and one of his wives, Hafsat Bello Mohammed, says two of her children have died. "They were sick and we told God and God said their time has come." She says that most of the wives see Mr Bello Abubakar as next in line from the Prophet Muhammad. Indeed, he claims the Prophet Muhammad speaks to him personally and gives detailed descriptions of his experiences. It is a serious claim for a Muslim to make.

    "This is heresy, he is a heretic," says Ustaz Abubakar Siddique, an imam of Abuja's Central Mosque.

     

  • Never Take Things For Granted

    I got good feed back from my interview yesterday, but there are a few more people to interview and because of the holiday I probably won’t find out about the position until towards the end of next week. But am putting more irons in the fire and arranging more interviews, you have to explore every avenue in this life and never take any thing for granted.  

  • Been Conquered

    The World Conker Championship held each year in Northamptonshire could be in jeopardy because of a virus which is attacking horse chestnut trees. Moths are destroying the leaves and a canker is killing the trees which means conkers are in short supply for the competition held in October at Ashton. Richard Howard, chief umpire, said: "It's a bit like having a football league with no footballs."

     

    Tournament organisers said they may have to import conkers from Europe.

    Every year 5,000 conkers are sorted for shape and size - contestants are not allowed to bring their own.

     

    But this is the first time in the competition's 44-year history that conkers have been affected by disease. About two million horse chestnuts in Britain are now under threat, organisers said. The trees survive through sap transporting water and nutrients, but the bacterial canker causes the tree to split and ooze sap, meaning the tree is starved of its food supply.

      

    Tim Upson, from Cambridge Botanic Garden, said: "If it did get a lot worse and we started to see a lot of trees dying it would certainly change the face of parks and gardens." Ady Hurrell, of Whittlesey, Cambridgeshire, took the World Conker Championship last year.

     

  • Phallus

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    MEISE, Belgium (Reuters) - It's one of the world's largest flowers, it stinks of rotting meat or rancid cheese and looks very much like a giant penis. The Amorphophallus Titanum -- literally "the giant strangely shaped penis" -- has been attracting big crowds at the National Botanic Garden of Belgium on the outskirts of Brussels.

     

    The rare phallus-like flower that springs from the plant only survives about 72 hours and its timing is completely unpredictable, said Gert Ausloos, head of education at the garden. Auloos called it "a botanical superstar". "It's there for a short time, it's glamorous, it's big, it produces something special ... it's star quality."

     

    Also known as Corpse Flower, it releases a strong smell to attract pollinators, thought to be sweat bees. Thousands queued to see -- and smell -- the 1.6 meter tall specimen on Thursday. Visitors compared the smell to rotten fish, others to rotten meat or old cheese.

     

    "It smells like a mix of rotten fish and rotten meat. It's quite impressive!" said visitor Frederic Lebreux.

     

    "I don't know, maybe like a Camembert," said Rachel Kaiembe. First discovered in 1878 in western Sumatra, the plant was first cultivated in Europe at the Royal Botanic Garden, Kew, in London in 1889. Because of its appearance, Victorian women were kept from viewing it.

     

  • Royalist’s v Publicans

    CANBERRA (Reuters) - An advertisement by an Australian brewer urging beer lovers to "Forget the monarchy, support the publicans" has angered supporters of Britain's monarchy who say the ad is beyond the pale, forcing it to be pulled.

    With the election victory last year of a pro-republican centre-left government stirring republican sentiment, monarchists had accused the South Australian beer company Coopers of attacking Australia's constitutional monarchy

    ."It crossed a boundary, because it said 'Forget the Monarchy', and that is a political statement. Why not say forget the republicans?" Australian Monarchists League national chairman Philip Benwell told Reuters on Thursday.

    Coopers appeared to have backed Prime Minister Kevin Rudd's support for a constitutional shift cutting ties to the monarchy, replacing the Queen as the country's head of state with a presidency, Benwell said. Rudd ended a visit to Britain in April with an audience with the Queen and a prediction that debate on a republic would grow in Australia in 2009, although for the moment his government had "bigger fish to fry".

  • Keeping My Fingers Crossed

    I had a job interview last night and I felt it went really well and am quietly confident about this one. Although I have a few more arranged for next week, this one looks promising but am keeping my fingers crossed.

  • Feeling Really Good

    It’s Friday, the final day of the working (well for the majority of us), the first day of the Olympics also the first of the rest of your lives. To me it means the start of a relaxing weekend, taking photographs out on my bike and generally having a great time.

     

    Am feeling great at the moment, all this exercise and diet are doing me some good, I can definitely feel now.

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